Thursday, November 06, 2014

Real Life Conversations with JT: Life Evaluation edition

The backstory:  Yesterday, JT asked me how I felt about my upcoming birthday, when I will turn 47.

Me:  Well, when I was your age, I don’t think I imagined this is where I would be at 47.

JT:  You have a steady paycheck, a nice girlfriend, a place to live, and you've been to Europe. Plus, you have a bad-ass, amazing 14 year old son.  You have a good life.

Put that way, I guess I’m in good shape.

Wednesday, November 05, 2014

Your Weekly Dogwood: November 5

As predicted, one windy storm wiped out the rest of the leaves on the dogwood tree.  The last of them fell off the tree during the Nor’easter last weekend.


Winter will bring snow and ice on the branches of this tree and then, as sure as the sun rises and sets each day, spring’s daylight and warmth will bring blooms.  I'll be here to see it all.  Marking the seasons with my dogwood tree reminds me of the value of patience.


That’s happy!

Tuesday, November 04, 2014

The Government We Deserve

I have to confess that I am absolutely enraged at the response of Governors Cuomo and Christie to America’s full-blown case of ebola panic.  The disease is clearly dreadful and I acknowledge that the anxiety is real but let’s make note that our anxieties are not REALISTIC.  I haven’t been impressed by the CDC in this crisis, but the WHO and Doctors without Borders do have a strong sense of how the disease spreads and how it can be contained.  President Obama has been measured and careful in his rhetoric.  Congress, busily campaigning for re-election after two years of doing nothing, has been virtually silent.  In the meanwhile, the nation has panicked.  In a way, this is a case study of the nation we have become, a group of citizens ignorantly lurching from one media event crisis to the next, with no sense that this is our government and therefore our responsibility.

At the same time, my daily inbox has been clogged with hyperbolic requests that I donate money to various Democratic political causes and candidates.  Many of them are political causes and candidates that I passionately believe in but this year I just couldn’t donate.  Even $5 seemed like a quiet endorsement of the ridiculous behavior of Congress.  I certainly don’t want Republicans to take control of the Senate so that they can run that institution are poorly as they have run the House, but I can’t fathom actually spending a dime to support the nonsense that has become Congress, no matter who is in charge.

I thought about voting against all incumbents, but my Representative (Rush Holt) has resigned and both of the candidates for the House in my my district are newcomers.  My senator, Cory Booker, has only been in office for a year.  He’s up for election to a full term in this seat.  I like and respect him and he has made efforts to reach across the aisle.  I will be casting an enthusiastic ballot in his favor this morning.

As for the rest of it, I feel like the nation is trapped in a cycle of irresponsible behavior as we wait for the bloodsport that will be the 2016 presidential election.  Harry Truman's famous do-nothing Congress has nothing on us.  I expect that Republicans will gain a narrow victory in the Senate and that the Democratic opposition will then take up the obstructionist tactics Republicans have used for the past two years.  The national interest will suffer, of course.  The list of serious issues we've failed to address (global warming, immigration, student loan debt, and more) will grow longer and more serious.  And we’ll have no one to blame but ourselves.


Monday, November 03, 2014

Morning Light

The time change occurred over the weekend and for a few days it feels like I get to sleep in.  Better than that is the sunlight which now arrives a little earlier in the morning.  This was the sky I saw as I enjoyed my first cup of coffee this morning.    The pink quickly faded to be replaced by sunlight.


It’s a good way to start the week.

Sunday, November 02, 2014

Sycamores

There are several tall sycamore trees on my street.  Though none grow in my yard, the large leaves and strips of bark will make up several of the bags of leaves I’ll eventually rake up and set on the curb.  I don’t mind the chore because the stately trees shade our street all summer long.  I figure a little raking is fair payment for the pleasure they bring me.



Saturday, November 01, 2014

November 1: Front Yard Flowerbed

The clock falls backward this weekend.  The extra hour of sleep will be most welcome and I have a plan to ease the darkness of the shorter days, so I’m ready for the change.  Mother Nature must have her eye on the calendar because right on schedule with the arrival of November the weather has turned chilly.  Last night, I fell asleep to the sound of the wind scudding dry leaves up the street.  I awakened this morning to breezy rain and temperatures in the low 40s.   Fall is definitely here, a fact that is abundantly clear in the ragged edges of the front yard flowerbed.


It’s time for me to dig up the dahlia bulbs to store for the winter and make the garden beds ready for their winter season.


I’ve planted some bulbs already and plan to put down a few more before the frost sets in.  It’s raining this morning but when things dry tomorrow, I’ll get out the mower out for one last mow.  That mow will serve several purposes — trimming the green grass one more time, mulching the leaves that are already down into fertilizer for the lawn, and running the mower out of gas for the winter.  I like these seasonal chores.  The fact that my garden needs rest is a reminder to pause myself, grab a cozy sweater, pour a hot mug of tea, and embrace November.


Friday, October 31, 2014

Happy Halloween!


This week, I'm loving photos of pumpkins.  These are the last of the patch from Jockey Hollow's colonial garden.


Thursday, October 30, 2014

Favorite Places

Over the weekend, T and I made a trip to Jockey Hollow, the place where we had our first date.  Things are lovely there this time of year.


We took a walk in the colonial garden planted at the farm and T reminded me that the first time we visited this garden, I sampled a gooseberry.  I’d never eaten one before and all those years of reading about gooseberries in English cozy novels tempted me to try.  Let’s just say that I now know why gooseberries need a lot of sugar.  Let’s further note that T requested a second date after she knew I was the sort of woman to eat strange items growing in someone else’s garden.  

This time around, the gooseberries are well past season, but we saw plants that thrive in the cooler weather.  There was mint, still abundant in the cooler fall weather.


And parsley.


The pumpkins had mostly been picked.


There was charming broom corn, which I’ve never seen before.  


Then we made the walk to the apple orchard.  This time, I got a kiss under one of those trees.


That’s happy!





Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Your Weekly Dogwood: October 29

As predicted, it took just one windy storm to clear most of the red leaves off of the dogwood tree.  Now the morning view of my dogwood from the back window doesn’t offer much color.  Outside, it’s clear that just a few more leaves remain.


Old man tree has also gotten in on the fall action in a big way.

  
The forecast calls for a cold snap this weekend but the rest of the week promises a few more days of the pleasant fall we have been enjoying for the last few weeks.  I love these days of blue sky and the light in the sunrises and sunsets.  I'm embracing them before the cold arrives to stay.



Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Pumpkins

This past weekend, T and I made trip to one of our favorite places in New Jersey.  On the way home, we stopped by the madness that is a New Jersey apple and pumpkin farm on the weekend before Halloween.  Amongst the chaos, the pile of pumpkins charmed me.


That’s happy!